..hope not

I wonder...is this just pure coincidence or it’s the rule now?? most of my friends have had a really bad experience in relationships [myself included]; thing is not only the fact of a relationship just not working, I’m talking about really deep-shitty situations, men who just seems not to care on the consequences, or just not giving a "flying fuck" on who is getting hurt cause of their decisions. And this is not limited to women who have kids already, which we might think are the ones who will have this kind of problems, domestic violence, abandon, cheating...we are all victims of this one time or another,., but my question is....who's the blame?
I've come to realize, we as women, tend to try to save the world, and as obviously we can’t do it, we try to do it, one man at a time, trying to save that poor soul of their own demons, cause we think [God knows why...] that our awesomeness will be enough to get that poor individual back on track, so there we go, taking shit over and over again...
Why we are so incapable to just leave that SOB who's causing so much trouble and just keep on going with our lives? Why do we keep on trying to fix that dude so it won’t happen to someone else?? Who cares if he does the same thing to another girl?? Who said IT WILL happen with someone else???

So again...who's the blame?? Theirs cause of the way they act...or ours...cause we keep going back again and again and again.....knowing we can do it on our own orthere might be someone outhere who will be totally worth it...or am I wrong??


...hope not